MUSINGS
A Yogic Cup of TEA
Warm reflections on
Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions
Warm reflections on
Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions
A man had a small herd of animals - his livelihood. One day as he was tending to them a young bull broke free having been startled by something. Instinct took over.. he lunged and grabbed its tail, determined not to let it get away.
The bull ran. And so he ran with it.. gripping tighter as he was dragged over stones, through bushes, his feet barely keeping up. His breath grew ragged, his body ached, but still he had to hold on. If he let go he was sure he would lose it forever. Then suddenly his hands failed him. He hit the ground rolling to a stop in the dirt, too exhausted to move. He lay there bracing himself for the awful sight of his bull disappearing into the horizon. But when he looked up.. there it was!. Just a few steps away. Calmly grazing, as if nothing had happened. He had been fighting, suffering, clinging for dear life when all along he could have just let go and walked. ✨ This story captures the futility of unnecessary struggle. Sometimes we convince ourselves that effort is the only thing keeping everything from falling apart, when in reality we are the only ones making it hard. We hold on fearing loss, but often if we just let go, we might realise we were never in danger of losing anything at all. For a while we tried to make something work because we thought 'it is just the way things are done'. We adjusted, adapted, did our best to fit. But no matter how much effort we put in, something always felt off.. like we were squeezing into a mould that wasn’t made for us.
At first we wondered if the problem was us. Maybe we needed to try harder. Be more patient. Be different. But then we asked a different question: What if we’re just in the wrong place? That shift in perspective changed everything. Instead of forcing what wasn’t working, we looked for where things felt right. Where there was ease. Where we could be ourselves without constantly reshaping to fit expectations. And that’s when we knew it was time for a change. Practical application: Lately, I’ve been paying attention to where things flow naturally versus where I feel resistance. If something constantly drains energy or requires me to fight upstream, I pause and ask:
Making a big change isn’t always easy, but neither is staying stuck in the wrong space. I’ve learned that the right fit doesn’t require constant force.. it just clicks.
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“I offer you peace. I offer you love. I offer you friendship.
I see your beauty. I hear your need. I feel your feelings. My wisdom flows from the Highest Source. I salute that Source in you. Let us work together for unity and love.” – Mahatma Gandhi – |